Shon - posted on 05/01/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My son's father had little do with us once I found out pregnant. My son is now 11 when son was 3 and then again when he was 5 were only two times we've seen him in past 11 yrs. No attempts to be involved all that time and the time when I saw him and my son was 3, we were in a store and $1 short. I asked him for it, he said he would be back next time I saw him was 2 years later. smh. In past, attempts to collect child support fail because he'd quit jobs and once stayed in same neighborhood, he moved after me learning he lived there. I now know where he has worked for past year and have even went in. He just said how we were didn't ask about visitation even bragged on how he takes care of "all' his children now. I would like to update child support services with his info and collect back support but concerned he will want visitation out of spite for paying support and also my son knows my boyfriend recently turned husband who has been around for 10 years as his father and thinks his real dad died in car accident. Torn between filing or leaving alone for my son's sake.