11 years of marriage, is it love or just companionship?

Judy - posted on 05/11/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Not feeling so happy in my marriage, we are like friends, is it time to divorce or just change things around? If someone feel like me, I will love to chat!

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Michelle - posted on 05/12/2016

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I agree with the other ladies.
Sometimes life just gets in the way and next thing we know months have gone by without romance.
When you have been with someone for a while, sometimes you need to plan things.
You also haven't said why you aren't feeling happy. Is it intimacy or something else?

Sarah - posted on 05/11/2016

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I have been married for 23 years and I have found there are times that I feel more like roommate than a wife. That is not necessarily bad. As long as you can work together and work thru the slow time of romance, the better moments will come along. My hubby and I had to work at it, we went 6 (maybe more like 9) months once with no sex and just chugging along. Then we had to schedule date nights, those were nice and did not end in sex all the time. Then we scheduled sex, awkward! Somehow though the tension was broken and the spice picked up. I love him, we are great friends, and we work well together. The intimacy is a bonus for me. If i had to choose between sex and the partnership with my hubby; I'd pick my husband

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Sarah - posted on 05/11/2016

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Every marriage waxes and wane in passion. As long as you get along and support each other, give it time and work at rekindling the fire.

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