13 Year old daughter says she wants to leave

Richard - posted on 12/28/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I am a man, not a woman that the website seems to want as members
Just been told by my girlfriend of 49 that her daughter is wanting to leave and live with her dad, if I keep seeing her mum

To me it was simple, her mother and father should put her straight and if her mother was considering ending our relationship then its not worth trying for.
The 16 year old son os ok, but she has a 24 year old son who lives elsewhere, who seems to call teh shots when the grand daughter is to be looked after when he or his partner go to work, who keeps in regualr contact with the otehr 2 kids and report back to each other.
When i first got with my partner, i saw loads of things that needed to change as she was ill, stressed, and being used, that has changed quite a bit, but now the "mother daughter bond card" has been played

I am ill anyway, and lots of other changes will be coming, like moving house and us living together, and money is alot tighter, even the girls father should have said, instead of letting his daughter think she had a choice, he doesnt want her or the boy to live with him, he has a new life and visits kids twice a week,

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Richard - posted on 12/28/2013

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To me any idea that any kid will change things, that are not actually hurting or damaging anything will not be allowed, but her 2 parents are actually thinking and considering her demands. DOH

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