13 yearold girls dressing in skimpy clothes

H - posted on 08/17/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )




I went to pick my daughter up from a friends after a sleep over the other 2 girls where running around in bras (no they weren't bathing suit like tops and the one was see through. I thoug this was so bad yet the girl who lived their, mother... did not care. they ran around outside for several hours like this. I was proud of my daughter for making the right choice not following them. I am trying to encourage my child to find different friends it seems to me so many parents let the their girls dress and behave badly.


Michelle - posted on 08/17/2016




Not letting her be friends with them isn't going to work. She will be friends with them just to spite you.
You said yourself that your daughter didn't join them so you should be proud that you have raised a confident daughter that doesn't have to follow the crowd.
Now you need to trust that what you have been doing for the last 13 years has sunk in and she will make good choices. So far she has proven she can.
Part of life is choosing our friends and what we do. You can't wrap her up forever but you need to let her gain confidence in saying no to what her friends are doing.


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~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/17/2016




or.......You have them over YOUR house and don't let your daughter hang out with them without adult supervision.

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