Dd - posted on 09/22/2013 ( 10 moms have responded )
Hi im a single mom with 4 kids. 3 of which im in a shared custody parentship with my ex.one of my twins who is 13 and has adhd and characteristics of aspbergers has in the past not wanted to return to his dads for various reasons.CAS has been involved and has given a caution to my exs wife and to him for harsh discipline and assultive behaviour to my son and youngest my son was made to return back. Ever since then my son has been different towards me and very abusive verbally to me....I dont stand for it and let him know I have rule in my home. He has now left me cus he doesnt want to follow my rules and has gone to live with his dad....I had him for 1.5yrs everyday when he wouldnt go to his dads and never got a red penny. He has been gone to my ex for 3 weeks and my ex is wanting support from me when the past 2yrs I havent taken a dime.he makes more money than me and I have 3 other kids to support. ....I miss my son a lot and would like him back but only if he follows my rules.i dont feel I should be paying support when I didnt get any before.....its a mess and my ex is being an a$$ about it. What should I do?