14 year old daughter wants to live with her dad~should I let her go?

Dawn - posted on 07/06/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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My daughter has lived with me since the divorce in 2005 I am the primary custodian. She and I have a good relationship~however, her father can't get over the fact that I divorced him. He uses her to try to hurt me never understanding she is the one who gets hurt. She has always been on the back burner with him. He makes promises and never follows through. He has caused alot of heartache for us both. I know a daughter wants a fathers love more than anything in the world and she needs her dad. I have always let her see him as much as possible. This summer she has stayed with him a lot even though it makes me sad that shes not here I know she needs the time with him. In Dec. he was approved for his disability~therefore she now receives benifit payments too. I know that after the summer is over he will try to get her to stay with him only to get his hands on her money. I dont know what to do~should I let her go for a year and see how it goes. It will kill me to let her go but I don't want her to hate me if I don't. Just the thought of her not being here tears my heart out what should I do??? I am soooooo lost. Any advise is appreciated. Thanks.

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