15 yr old disrespectful stepson

Brendalis - posted on 02/17/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




Hi, my name is brendalis and I'm getting married in July to a single parent.He has custody of his 15yr son who mother only comes around when either dad is dating or she needs a place to stay. Paternal grandma helps raising him.My issue is dad moved in with me and 6 months later his son did. After 6 months I noticed his attitude changed rules were being broken and porn was being introduced to my 10 yr old...when approached with questions my stepson cursed me out. My fiancé ignored the issues and only made his son move back with granny. 4 months later no apologies and now stepson feels its ok to go to my house everyday and sleepover.Im not ok with it since nothing has been fixed.Not to mention I had to get on high blood pressure meds and even depression. My fiancé doesn't see a issue with his son being in my house. We are starting counciling over this and I feel his son should stay away from my house and kids. Dad can still be his dad but away from us.Am I wrong for trying to protect my kids in our castle?


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Jodi - posted on 02/17/2014




You knew your partner had a child when you decided to commit to him. There was ALWAYS the possibility he would be living with you. You are not wrong in trying to protect your son, but you ARE wrong in marrying a man who has a son you don't want in your home. Sorry, but how would you feel if your son suddenly started doing something your partner didn't like and he insisted your son had to leave? What would you do? The fairest thing you can do here is to end the relationship.

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