America - posted on 09/16/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
Although my daughter does take care of herself( washing etc) she can't seem to wash her hair properly and she leaves residue on the crown of her head. My issue is that when I approach her and tell her that I can wash it for her or try and show her she gets very angry with me and says that I've insulted her. I just can't seem to get through to her that I only want her to be her best. I don't want her to resent me but I don't know that I can just ignore what I'm seeing when I see her hair. I've tried to be gentle and choose my words carefully but nothing works. She does occasionally let me was her hair for her but this is stArting to cause a rift between us. Any suggestions?