Wpgdesigners - posted on 11/29/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My son is 16 almost 17. He has been dating a girl for about 6 months. The girl has lied to me and him about various things from the beginning. He knows she cheated on him early on and tried to cheat on him to. She also is very manipulative and someone in a position of authority has called her crazy. Her mother had a rough divorce and clung onto hopes of reuniting with him until he finally remarried. The girlfriend freq uses that to get what she wants and the mother is very gullible and clueless. My husband died 2 1/2 years ago, so I am raising 4 of the 7 kids on my own (other 3 are grown). I know his death hit my son hard and may be why he clings to things tighter. The point of my question is my son is at this girls house all the time, her mother does not come home until late freq. So from 3-10 they are alone to "play house". I have let it go but for my own sanity can no longer. He will be leaving home soon enough and while I know he loves her, he needs to be home more often. They say I am controlling their relationship, but I know they are having sex. I cant be the lone person to police them when I have 3 other kids who also have activities and homework. I am just not sure how to instrument a change.