Janice - posted on 05/15/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
They have been dating a year and he is a completely different person than he was before he met her. Now he hates his family and spends all his time with her. She has even gotten him to change his mind about college. He no longer wants to go away and stay on campus but wants to go to a local community college and commute. She is going to a local state school so they will be close by. They are sexually active and I know from reading some of his texts when he left his phone home one day, that she has actually mentioned wanting a baby and getting an apartment together. One thing to note, my son has Asperger's Syndrome and is very high functioning but his social skills have always been lacking. He didn't have any friends until he met her so he clings to her for dear life. My husband and I have not idea how to proceed here. We want to intervene but at the same time we don't want to push him further into her arms. Any advice/experience woudl be appreciated.