Sarah - posted on 08/12/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
I am a single mom and work hard, too hard to make ends meet. I am up at 5am everyday, cleaning, hoovering and doing lots of other work around the house before I go to work - IT business that I am trying to run.
My 18 years old, turning 19 on Saturday feels that I am here to work and him to play computer games and all other addictions and spend all day sleeping. No CHORES!!
I came from work this afternoon and found that he did not even hung the clothes out or emptied the dishwasher - cooked as usual - me buying the food. He had a young lady, they had pizza (I bought the night before) and had not emptied the dishwasher or done any house work - while doing it, I heard a female voice, called him downstairs and asked him to asked her to leave. I had previously said he could not invite friends without informing me first. This child started laughing at me - so I told him if he did not tell the girl to leave, I would!
He laughed at me so much that I had to go upstairs and asked the girl in a polite way that she had to leave - the girl was still there after an hour. I asked her finally to leave or I will call the police. My son was telling her, you do not need to leave - he was even calling me names in front of her and she stayed.
He will not be coming home tonight!Parents teach your daughters, when asked to leave, they should. Why take sides of a boy she does not know?