Tabitha - posted on 01/29/2015 ( 11 moms have responded )
My 18 yr old step son is still a senior, he was raised from a child basically by his father. His dad has done everything for him and has cause his son to be ungrateful and clueless about life. My husband is strict but very much loves his children ( we also have an 11yr old daughter and 4 yr old son) this year my son has gotten better with his attitude towards myself and his grandmother but now has turned full force onto his father! He now has a gf this year and has become completely infactuated with her! He has gotten fired from his job, lied about where he was all weekend, drinks at parties, brings gf to his room no matter what we say , he sneek a her in like a ninja, she is unaware that we don't want her in his room all the time for hours! He also has t gone to school this week, " cuz they aren't doing anything" and now it's been enough! My husband took the car and cell and told him if he doesn't want to listen to the rules then move out! He started to pack to go to his aunts and that started a full on argument between the guys ( both are athletic and over 6'4" and 200lbs and I don't want it to get physical! My question is what do I do as a stepmother and mother in this situation! I want him to finish high school and get to college( at least he has applied) without having to worry about life but I sure xant have him disrupting the rest of our lives while he decides to get it together!!!! hELp!!!