2 months without a cycle? Could I be pregnant?

Cyaira - posted on 07/15/2013 ( 31 moms have responded )

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My last cycle was May 3rd. It was normal and on time. I had sex on May 25th and my boyfriend swears that he didn't ejaculate inside of me but 3-6 days later I began to have brownish-pinkish spotting, not enough for a pad and I only saw it when I wiped. I had a Pap smear done on June 13th and my pregnancy test was negative. Since I missed my June cycle, my breast are beginning to feel very heavy and tender, my bras are getting smaller, I have times when I feel very weak, I eat all day and never get full, I eat foods I've never really cared for, I have gas all the time no matter what I eat, my bowels have slowed down and I'm even constipated at times, I can't even suck my stomach in anymore, and don't let me start on my emotions, it's a true roller coaster. I've missed my cycle this month and my cycle normally comes every 30 days but its been missing for two months. What should I do? I'm scared and nervous and I feel horrible and fat. Am I pregnant?

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Kathryn - posted on 07/17/2013

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Hi I was eight weeks pregnant before the gynaecologist could pick up that i was pregnant. i had a blood test, this is the most effective way of finding out as there are no mistakes, you either are or aren't. you should consider having a blood test because you are showing alot of symptoms of pregnancy and this could be a mentally enduced pregnancy. you start feeling everything you would when you hare pregnant but this could be force on by the worry and stress of the possability. I would take the blood test and eliminate any worries.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/15/2013

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We cannot tell you if you are pregnant or not. Go take another test. Yes you COULD be pregnant. Or you could be eating to much, and not drinking enough water for you to feel that bloated or gaining weight.

Could you be pregnant if he did not ejaculate in you? Yup. If he enters you without a condom, even for a moment, you can get pregnant. Precum is in his penis, and yes it has sperm in it. He doesn't NEED to ejaculate for his sperm to enter you.

Margaret - posted on 07/21/2013

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You sound pregnant to me, but your period could also be delayed from stress. My cycle is extremely regular, but when my husband and I finally decided to try to get pregnant the stress caused me to go over 4 months without a cycle. I needed a prescription from my doctor to get my cycle started again. Until you have a blood test, treat your body right and make your boyfriend use condoms.

Imbeautifuldawn - posted on 07/16/2013

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Just so you know for future reference, there is semen in pre-ejaculation fluids. So be advised that the pull-out method really isnt effective.
Get a test and see of you are pregnant. I know it is hard and you are afraid, but knowing is important.
And dont be discouraged. Even if this baby wasn't in your plans for life right now, you have NO IDEA the sweetness and joy that tiny one will bring to your life. I also had an unplanned pregnancy, and that girl blesses me every day in ways i cannot even begin to explain. So don't get too overwhelmed! One step at a time!
Starting with a pregnancy test.

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It's quite possible you are pregnant. It's also possible that you are gaining weight because you are stressed and overeating, either because of pregnancy fear or something else. Get a home pregnancy test - most of them are quite accurate, especially when you've missed two periods already. If it's positive, go to your doctor for confirmation and to learn how to take care of yourself while you are pregnant. If it's negative, go to your doctor to see if there is an underlying illness or other problem that is causing your food, digestive, and other issues. Good luck!

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Natasha - posted on 10/18/2013

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Hi ladies just a quick question! I was five days late, then this morning I have started bleeding? Could I still b pregnant? Has my periods are always regular & on time?? Please help!!!

Sherilyn - posted on 07/27/2013

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If your first test came out negative then go get another one done and a blood test if you are really worried. But remember it is summer and as women our bodies change whether it be we loose weight or gain or our menstural changes ... The blood looks different thicker darker or even it is lighter then what you normally have it. With the weather this summer it could be anything the heat can do a lot to our bodies .... Not just the heat but your birth control also .... So take in all the factors and the only one who really will know is your doctor :)

Cyaira - posted on 07/22/2013

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@sam I missed my cycle from may up until now and I had to get a blood test because it wouldn't show through my urine and I also had an ultrasound done.

Sam - posted on 07/22/2013

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@ cyaira where you late as well and it took a while to show (+)? I called my Dr if nothing by day 36 gonna get a blood test. Im trying not to get really stressed as to not get a further delay. I keep thinking I feel a cramp here or there but its so faint I question if thats even what Im feeling. Normally I have really light cramps start bleeding and on day 2 I have cramps that are stronger then everything following tapers off. I only have one day of real cramps. From what Ive read Im usually pretty lucky normal periods, normal cramps, normal bleeding. So its a real head game when there is a sudden change. Like I said this happened 1 other time and I was convinced I was preg then but was not. This time Im assuming the same but only time will tell.

Cyaira - posted on 07/22/2013

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@Sam I'm going through it myself. I'm a sophomore in college majoring in Biology;Pre-Med and I just found out I'm almost 12 weeks. Trust me, get tested again it may have been too early.

Cyaira - posted on 07/22/2013

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@Sam I'm going through it myself. I'm a sophomore in college majoring in Biology;Pre-Med and I just found out I'm almost 12 weeks. Trust me, get tested again it may have been too early.

Sam - posted on 07/22/2013

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Im 29 and have always had a regular cycle (26-28) days. My periods is late Im at 33 days w/o took a preg test at 31 days w/o and it was negative. I did have this happen one other time in my history of cycles 3 yrs ago exactly this month had this happen went 35 w/o and then got it and went back to normal following cycle. Im a nursing student close within a few months of graduation. I really dont want to be preg yet. My bf and I have been together 9 years. I had a miscarriage when I was 21. Preg test was + the day I missed. Although I do know periods can be late due to stress, diet change, all sorts of reasons it is very frustrating not KNOWING what is going on! Has anyone else had this happen?

Nikki - posted on 07/22/2013

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I see this was about a week ago, and I hope you have further news by now. However, I did want to address the bleeding thing. As you know, some people do have implantation bleeding. However, some people also have some mild spotting with ovulation. You could have been ovulating at that time. I would have to agree with everyone saying you should get another test and/or see a doctor. Pregnancy CAN cause those symptoms (and is most likely), but so can stress. Good luck either way!

Tricia - posted on 07/22/2013

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I would say you are pregnant. When I was pregnant with my daughter in my first few weeks, I also had the spotting. Since I had went through two miscarriages before, I was freaking out. When I called my doctor to check about it, his nurse told me that it was implantation bleeding (miscarriage would be bright red). I would definitely get tested again.

Paula - posted on 07/21/2013

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Even if ejaculation is around the vagina, they can still get in. Sounds like you are def pregnant. Get checked out.

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My husband didn't ejaculate in my either.... I have a nine year old. Pre-cum as it can be called, contains just as much sperm. I know someone that had 5 children that way! That is ZERO birth control method.
Sounds to me like you are pregnant! Get another test done quick! Please start treating your body right!!

Selma - posted on 07/19/2013

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Chances are that you are not pregnant. Just because you think you are pregnant, your body is acting accordingly.

The symptoms you described are exactly of a pregnant lady. I had all those symptoms when I was pregnant. I was constipated, i had cravings etc.

For you to be sure just go for a blood pregnancy test, its more accurate.

Goodluck

Norma - posted on 07/18/2013

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You should make a doctor 's appointment with your GYN. To see what may be causing your lack of a period and your other symptoms.That way you have knowledge of what happening with your body.Hope this helps.

Melissa - posted on 07/18/2013

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Take a pregnancy test. There can be sperm even if ejaculation doesn't occur, which is why pulling out is not a very effective form of birth control.

Natasia - posted on 07/18/2013

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He doesn't have to cum in you for you to get pregnant. There are sperm in precum and even I he pulled out a little could have still gotten in you. Just take a test.

Amanda - posted on 07/18/2013

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I'd say it's possible that you are but you need to get a blood test to be sure as the other ladies suggested. Good luck & keep us updated!

♡Amanda♡ - posted on 07/17/2013

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Hey
I'm having simular issues this month
I got IUD removed in January and my cycle have been within the 40-45 day length intill now I am now on day 55 and nothing I check my cervix for and tinted mucus for hoping for a hint of arrival and nothing
I have been actively TTC sense removal with nothing but hopfully wishing
On day 46 I took a PTest and like I exspected Negtive so I told myself ill wait till day 55 see if I start and obviously Nota :/ I'm so hesitent because I dnt want to be let down and not be PG and then stress that I'm just messed up from 5 yrs of IUD& no cycles
I do get like different side cramping and boobs do ache at times but I would have these symptoms before Period as well so ofcorse I think (oh ur cramping wait a few days you'll start and then still nothing) I plan to take a Test again to marrow am lets hope I'm PG
I CANT stand with not knowing

Nesbi - posted on 07/16/2013

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One was first response early pregnancy, the other 3 were mexican brands (I'm in México)

Nesbi - posted on 07/16/2013

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Yes, I was.
One of the tests didn't even print the little plus sign. So I bought different brands and did them. 2 had a clear pregnancy double strip one blotched.

Why I want you to go to your general practitioner? he will tell you what steps are needed if this is your first pregnancy (Care and vitamins wise)

Jill - posted on 07/16/2013

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I would suggest taking an at home test. From your symptoms I would say yes. That is how I felt w/ my second pregnancy and it was a complete surprise and that is why I took a test. In June it might of been to soon for a test to come back positive. Wish you the best of luck.

Nesbi - posted on 07/16/2013

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I bought 4 pregnancy tests when I "suspected" I could be pregnant, and then I went to my Dr.

Arielle - posted on 07/16/2013

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Yes, there is a good chance you may be pregnant. Like Little Miss Can't Be Wrong says, there is precum that seeps out of the penis that contains sperm. Especially with all the symptoms you have described. There is also a medical condition that prevents a pregnancy test to detect the hormone that makes it positive. Blood tests are not accurate either. If you take another test and it is negative, go to your dr and ask for an ultrasound. Good luck!

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