Emilie - posted on 12/19/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
I have been suspecting for a while that my ex husband was cheating on his new wife with his neighbor, he gets our kids every other weekend so I want my kids to be in a good environment. I have heard so much lately about all the fighting, and inappropriate and crazy things that goes on over there. I wouldn't care except that my kids are over there. I started going to church and I found out that one of the women that goes there are neighbors with my ex, me and her kinda are friends and we were talking saturday while the kids were practicing for the christmas play and I found out that this woman not only lives next to my ex but has been sleeping with him, and is best friends with his wife and has had threesomes with him and her. As we were talking more I found out that she is engaged to my ex and his wife and they plan to get married and it bothers me because all this crap is going on while my kids are there and I don't want them involved with all that. I don't want my son to grow up and be like his dad. I called my ex and told him how sick he was and he said that all that stuff was a lie and that I misunderstood her, but I am not stupid and I know I didn't misunderstand, and my 9 year old son told me that they all sleep together, and the fact that I have been suspecting that stuff is going on for a while, I just didn't know that they were engaged and that the women do sex stuff too and that they have threesomes. I have a court order, and I can't afford to go back to court and get the order changed, and if I just try to keep them from him then he could call the cops on me.
It is just a weird gross situation and it really bothers me. My kids don't need 3 moms, and they need there dad to be a good dad
I am worried because polyagamy is illegal here, and the kids should not know what goes on in the bed room, and they have already been molested there last year, we are now going to court for that. They were not molested by him, but by a man that he let in the house and he knew the man was bad news and he doesn't watch the kids good enough. He lets my 9 year old babysit his 2 year old.