20 and nervous
Dani - posted on 07/11/2014
Regardless of your decision, you should really check out as many forums as you can. So many people have great advice and they are right at your fingertips. There is this app called SmartMom you can get on your phone. It is amazing, everyone on it is SO nice and helpful, I'm sure you could find some really great advice on there.
Gena - posted on 07/11/2014
I totaly agree with Kayla,you are 20 and an adult. I dont know how old you were when she forced you to have an abortion,but that was not ok.Its your body and your decision!Your mom cant force you to have an abortion,but like Kayla mentioned,she could tell you to leave..or maybe she wont,maybe she now knows that you are 20 and maybe she has changed. You will only find out when you tell her. If she makes you leave,try get support..the babys father and his family,or maybe you have other family members that will help you.I wish you good luck and that your mother has changed and that she will support you,instead of pushing you and her grandchild away!
Kayla - posted on 07/09/2014
You are 20 years old, which means you are an adult. No one can force you into having an abortion at this point. Unfortunately what she can do, is ask you to leave her home. If it were me, I would tell your mother sooner rather than later, and have an open honest discussion with her about your fears and worries. Be prepared for her to ask you to find somewhere else to live, as it sounds like she may not agree with you keeping the baby. But if your decision is to keep it, she absolutely can not force you to have an abortion.
Ashley - posted on 07/09/2014
I am nervous because I have been pregnant before and forced into abortion sadly by mother and this time I wanted to keep my baby no matter what I work go to school and drive but I still live with my mom so that why im scared to tell her or anyone else
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