Kelly - posted on 10/16/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
Nothing against being 53..
My name is Kelly and I am brand new to COM, I have a 2 year old toddler and a wonderful fiancé. Unfortunately, I feel something is missing.. 3-4 years ago I was so spunky, I loved being creative with what I wore, what I put on my walls, and music was a HUGE part of my life.. I wasn't popular but I felt like I knew what was going on with entertainment, now I'm lost. I don't dress like i used to, or even close to it, I dress exactly like my mom.. But worse.
My mom is the best, don't get me wrong, the way she dresses isn't too bad.. But I want my bubbly, spunky personality to show back up again.. I feel like I'm so out of the loop.
I've gained weight, I've lost my sex drive, I don't feel sexy (although my fiancé would disagree), all I feel like is JUST a mom..
Has anyone gone through this? Or going through this?? I feel as if I'm the only young mom that I know going through this.. I see tons of moms look like they feel great.. Wear whatever they want, seem confident, happy, etc..