24 year old brother in law with the mind set of a teenanger

Crystal - posted on 07/17/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I will try and make this short and understandable as possible.
It all started when the discussion of me and my son moving with my boyfriend started. My boyfriend mentioned the possibility of having his younger brother move with us, I stated that I firmly believed that that was not the best idea considering the multiple issues that me and my boyfriend had and still have to deal with as a couple.

A week into move in the BIL mentions that he got laid off from his job that he had but will pursuit a new job. Agreed that we will give him an opportunity to find a job we allowed him to still make the move with us.

Now fast forward 2 month. after eating up OUR ( mine and my boyfriends) food. having the A/C on ON and not automatic, washing all his laundry on the hottest possible setting on a full load even when theres a few articles of clothing, finding a knife in OUR ( my bf and mine) hamper that he claimed to have used to opne up some stuff with, leaving all his cigarrettte buds all over the patio area, leaving doors open and opening windows when the a/c is oc, not cleaning up after himself when using kitchen pans, plates or utensils. IM FED UP!! not to mention that we are all in a 2 bedroom apartment with 1 toddler and another baby on the way. He has his own room and bathroom to himself while my bf, and I, and our 2 kids are going to have to find a way to live in 1 single room. not to mention my BIL ihas taken my laptop out of my room without permission and to his moms house because he said he needed to work on his resume. the other day he went through my car and found the stash of cash that I had in there and used it to put gas in the car without telling me. so the next time I went to look for the money because I needed gas it wasn't there, and that was my emergency stash I keep in my vehicle for when im in situations like that.

I just don't know what to do with this guy anymore. its seriously driving me insane. Im not sure if its the hormones from my pregnancy of hes really just that bad of a person to live with. HELP!!!!!

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Crystal - posted on 07/18/2016

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he just says "you know how he is". previous to moving I spoke with his brother about my expectations about living with us and what boundaries I would have and he agreed. which is why this is so frustrating.

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