KYAKUHA - posted on 01/20/2016 ( 22 moms have responded )
Married for close to 40years, and a mum of 3 adult choldren. My husband had and is still having an affair with the mother of his other 3 children who are now teenagers. He kept them as asecret though I got to lnow about them through rumours.
He is now up in arms that the children need to see where their father stays.
I have cleatarly told him that am not interested in their coming to visit. This is because he is constantly in touch with them and their mother, so i see no reason for them to visit us. Am not sure how to handle this situation because it is straigning our relationship.