3 weeks pregnant the father things we are not financtially ready anyone have any ideas

Brianna - posted on 12/17/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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im 3 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to get an abortion but i dont want to i dont believe in abortion the father thinks we are not read financially ready anyone have any ideas

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Jodi - posted on 12/17/2012

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Have you discussed adoption as an option?

Quite honestly, if you don't believe in abortion, don't let anyone pressure you into having one.

Loraine - posted on 12/18/2012

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No one is ever finacially ready when a pregnancy is unplanned. Sounds to me you boyfriend is unemotionally prepared & ready for fatherhood.
Don't be pressured into a termination if its not what you want. You would only hold it against him in the future if you let him pressure you.

Take your time, think long & hard & get as much emotional support as you can from friends & family xx

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Mom Of - posted on 05/23/2014

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Pregnancy takes a lot of folks by surprise. I had 4 kids - none were planned but all were wanted. You obviously do not want to get rid of your child. FOLLOW YOUR HEART. it is telling you the right way to go. There is something about having an abortion that will haunt you for the rest of your life - " Who was that person?" If your boyfriend is not committed to this child, if he wants you to have an abortion because he is not " financially READY", well, here is probably never going to be a time when he is financially "ready'. So, you should not be pressured into doing something you do not want to do. You should do your research on what an abortion procedure does. believe me, you will not want that. Read some other women's stories. There are different stories here. I will offer you whatever support I can - there are options that you have that will allow yuo to follw your conscience - it is telling you " NO!" to abortion. It is right. There are support groups for you - if you want to tell me approximately where you are located, I will do what I can to help you find them. The Lord bless you and your baby - http://www.gargaro.com/regrets.html

Brianna - posted on 12/18/2012

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thanks that helps i told him im going forward with the pregnancy and if he dont like it than he can leave i got some help from the county and everything u were right tho im never going to let anyone pressure me again like that

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