3 year old...

Anna - posted on 01/07/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hi! My doughter is turns 3 in february...i have a problem and would like to hear from another moms some advice or maybe someone have similar problems.
Well we have problem with sleeping,every evening its realy hard to put her a sleep...i talk to her a lot,i sometimes loose my pacient,but she still dont liseten to me...alays need to cry before bedtime and then she goes to sleep late,like 11pm or at midnight.
Another problem is her too much talking back to me..anything i say,she will always have something to say back..like if i tell her that that is not good what shes doing,then she always say back things to me witch make me upset and i have done many things to make her not to be that way..im just worried that she groes alder it willbecome harder and harder...i dont know what to doo....and also my husband is not doing the right thing too,anytime i tell hr something or i dont let her to do something that shes not alowed,he will olways step in and do it her way.it realy makes me angry...to skip the argument i just walk away to calm myself down,but i dont know long i can keep my nerves on the right track...i feel like i will blow up one day...well the most important is that someone hepl me with good advice...it will be very helpful
thatnk you ladies!
Sorry abotu mistakes,but im not english...

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Tina - posted on 01/07/2014

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Is she napping a lot during the day? If so, try and hold off on naps and get into a routine of having a story at 8, and you leave the room at 830. And maybe at that time, put on some music?

As far as your husband issue goes, communication is key. Obviously. You two need to be on the same page, otherwise, you're right, its only going to get harder and harder. But, its not easy. It's hard not to be a pushover for your children, you (or he in this case) always neeed to keep in the back of your mind, that by standing your ground, you are only helping your child in the long run. Its not easy, no one ever said it was.

Lastly, if she is being that naughty, just be consistent with your punishments. If she's 3 years old, time out for 3 minutes. Consistency does work, but it may take some time. Good luck!!

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