30 weeks preg !! NEED HELP!!

Charlotte - posted on 08/26/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )

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HELLO EVERYONE, I AM A NEW MEMBER AND LOOKING FORWARD TO READING POSITIVE POSTS AND INFORMATION FROM OTHER MOTHERS.

I AM 30 WEEKS PREGNANT, COUNTING DOWN THE DAYS TIL MY SON IS HERE, I AM VERY EXCITED IT IS MY 1ST CHILD. THIS IS MY SITUATION...



WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT, I WASN'T WITH MY CHILDS FATHER, WE WERE JUST DATING AND DIDN'T EXPECT ANYTHING SERIOUS... WE HAD ONLY BEEN SEING EACH OTHER FOR ABOUT A MONTH, THEN I TOOK A TEST AND FOUND OUT THE GOOD NEWS ( FOR ME) HE WASN'T VERY HAPPY.

HE ALSO DIDN'T BELIEVE THAT IT WAS HIS, HE STARTED CALLING ME NAMES, AND TOLD ME HE WANTED ME TO HAVE AN ABORTION. HE ALSO TOLD ME THAT HE "HAD A VESECTOMIN"... WHICH LATER HE ADMITED THAT HE LIED ABOUT THAT. THE WHOLE TIME IVE BEEN PREGNANT, HE HAS ONLY BEEN TO ONE ULTRA SOUND. HE ALSO HAS MOVED TO ANOTHER STATE, SO I HAVENT EVEN SEEN HIM FOR ABOUT 4 MONTHS.... HIS FAMILY SAYS THAT THEY ALL WANT THE DNA TEST BEFORE THEY WILL GIVE ME ANY SUPPORT OR SHOW ANY INTEREST.... BUT NOW THAT TIME IS GETTING CLOSER AND THINGS ARE GETTING MORE REAL THEY STILL ARE NOT THERE... MY CHILDS FATHER'S MOTHER IS A SINGLE MOTHER OF 2 SO I THOUGHT SHE WOULD HAVE MORE FEELINGS TOWARD MY SITUATION, BUT SHE TOLD ME THAT I RUINED HER SONS LIFE.... I AM 24 YEARS OLD, MY CHILDS FATHER IS 30, HE IS A GROWN MAN AND CAN MAKE HIS OWN DECISIONS. IM JUST VERY CONFUSED ON WHAT I NEED TO DO... OR WHAT I SHOULD DO.... WHAT DO I DO WHEN IM GOING INTO LABOR? HE LIVES 600 MILES AWAY, DO I CALL HIM? DO I INVOLVE HIM OR HIS FAMILY? SHOULD HE BE THERE WITH ME EVEN THO HE HAS NOT SHOWN ANY INTEREST THIS WHOLE TIME? DO I GIVE MY SON MY LAST NAME OR HIS? HOW DO I GET A DNA TEST AND CHILD SUPPORT, PLEASE IF ANY MOTHERS HAVE ANY ADVICE PLEASE POST OR EMAIL ME,.... I LOOK FORWARD TO GETTING HELP.... THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

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