Jen - posted on 05/13/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )
Hello - I would love to get your thoughts on my situation. I am 34 and have been with a great guy for the past two years. We have talked about marriage but am not financially stable to get a ring, plan marriage, etc (only one of us is financially stable and we would both like to be before moving forward). A week ago, I found out I was pregnant and it was all by accident. We aren't even married yet and we are both starting our new careers (he finished grad school and embarking on a new career and I just got a new promotion/job that will require a lot from me). What do I do? I know timing can never really be right...but this timing is SO not right. I do plan to marry him and we do want kids one day...but I feel like I would be more prepared in about a year or so at 35. What should I do if I don't feel ready at all???