Nikki - posted on 02/20/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
My 35 year old son was married for 4 years and after his divorce, he moved back home. tht was 7 years ago. Since living back at home he hs gotten involved in drugs, been in jail 3 times, picks only women on welfare to hang out with and refuses to help around the house. If he does happen to clean a tub one day, he espects praises. He can't get a job due to his record and he doesn't have a care becuase the last 2 have been repossessed. He also has jail time that he hasn't completed. He's been kicked out 3 times within the past years that he hs been living back with his family but we always take him back, Last weekend things came to a climax againbecause he doesn't do anything to contribute to the household and we are sick of it. He and my husband got into a fight so he has been asked to leave again. He has been gone 3 days but still thinks it's our fault that he had to leave. He doesn't have anywhere to go so is basically living with frineds from house to house. My sone wasn't brought up to live like this. He has had do many nice jobs and has blew everyone of them. If I don't let him come back home I feel like he will start using again but if he comes home, the whole famiy stays in turmoil. Any suggestions on the right way to handle this? Do distraught!