4 yr old defensive at school and resulted in her saying she has no friends.

Tanya - posted on 03/12/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Hi my now 4 yr old daughter started school J/K in sept/13. She is very sweet but extremly hyper little girl. She has always had an issue with any form of rejection.She becomes defensive and wont back down if it comes to a fight. I realize her extreme energy level coupled up with defensiveness can be hard for anyone to handle at times but I am now devastated. She comes home crying from school sayinfg she wished she had a friend to play with at school. I considered pulling her out because maybe she is not socially ready for interaction with a large group of children. I do not want her self esteem torn before she even has a start in life. Im confused any advice on how to try to get her to act properly with the other kids at school. I want to pull her out but she tells me she wants to go. But crying when she comes home. 1 Child in particular goes at it with her everyday constantly.Tells her she stupid,spits at her wont let her play in certain areas but I get the bad reports from the teachers on how my daughter is.Not what was done to her first. I finally just told her to stay away from her and tell the teacher if she bothers her. I attempted to try to get them to get along by inviting her to my daughters birthday party.She came they played great.Then they fight all the time at school. Dont know what to do in this situation.

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