4year old help!

Nicole - posted on 09/16/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I have been with my fiancé for 2 years and my 4 yr old calls him daddy we welcomed a new baby into out family in feb. My 4 yr olds real father now wants to be apart of his life and I am fine with that as me and my fiancé agree that we want him to know who he is. What I don't know is how to explain to my child the difference between them I don't want him to feel hurt or when he gets up set with my fiancé to tell him your not my daddy.. Please help!!

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Lisa Baglole - posted on 09/16/2013

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My suggestion is not to call him "Real Father" Biological Father is what I would say. Blood does not make a parent. If your fiance is the person who has been taking care of him (metally, physically, finacially) he is his father. A child can never have to many "parents" to love them. Your 4 year old will call him what they want to . Family is of the heart.

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