Count - posted on 10/07/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
My fiance and I have been living together for two years now. I have a 6yr old that I have all legal rights to and my fiance has a4yr old from a previous failed marriage. It has been so hard on us because once the ex wife found out about me she started doing everything she could to destroy me. She took my fiance back to court for more child support because she wanted to move out of state and take the child with her. Buy this time we had already been keeping him every weekend and two sometimes three days during the week. She won her case after showing up in court in a leather mini skirt knee high boots and pig tails. Now our wedding has been cancelled twice and we are barely getting buy. Problem now is she is a big spender. What once was a dead relationship and attachment to his mom and fearful at the sight of her has been bought away with massive amounts of toys and trips. His wardrobe is more then I've ever had. Now he comes to the house to visit In new Jordan's or nikes and brAgs to my son about how much better he is and how much smarter hs is. The child won't acknowledge me or as k me for a thing anymore. He gives me dirty looks and when he does want something he never asks. It's tie my shoe now and you give me a snack now. His father stopped discipline because he's moving out of state andrarely gets to see him. My son is really having a hard time with this and i know soon this woman will not be able to handle the monster she created and will pawn him off on us once he's past a point of recovery. Please help us. What do we do?