5 weeks pregnant ..... and my baby is jus 10 months

Gee - posted on 03/02/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I feel so depressed, confuses and like my life is falling apart. I just found out I am pregnant again and my son is not even 1 yet. My husband wants me to do an abortion but I jus can't, so it's already tearing my marriage apart. We live in different countries right now so I am pretty much on my own with my son. I don't know how I am going to manage a baby, work, housework and being pregnant. .. but It doesn't feel right aborting it. I don't know what to do. My husband says he is not ready for another baby me neither. He just visited for 3 days and this happened... my cycle jus up and changed on me. I feel so awful I don't want to rob my son of the attention he deserves because of another baby. But I just can't live with myself if I abort. I had a miscarriage and blocked tubes before and have so many friends who can't get pregnant. So depressed. ..don't know what to do...

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Chana - posted on 03/03/2015

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I got pregnant with my youngest when my oldest was almost 11 months old. It was not planned, I was on the pill. Sarah was suppose to be an only child but God works in mysterious ways. I went through most of the feelings you are saying except I am a Stay at Home Mom. I can't tell you what to do but I can be honest with you. It isn't easy to have a young toddler and a baby at the same time. You do quickly figure out how to give them equal attention even if it is together. Although Allison was unplanned she couldn't be more loved. She has added so much to our family that we would be lost with her. I was scared having to babies so close in age but they get along as well as most siblings and toddlers do. You will make the decision that is best for you and your family.

Sarah - posted on 03/02/2015

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What about robbing your son from his sibling? Right now you are focused on the negative. I would suggest looking at the positive. There is a lot of positive for having kids close in age or having a sibling. By not having this baby there are a lot of things you, your husband, and you son will miss out from. None of my kids were planned, but I can't imagine my life without each one of them. There are adjustments we have to make, but I can't imagine not having one of my kids because at the time I thought it would be hard or my other kids would loose out. At times it is a lot of work, but as for my kids loosing out that is SO not true. They have gained 10 times over with their sibling.

Gee - posted on 03/02/2015

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My mom is pissed at me. She is only around on weekends. No other family or friends to help in that way

Sarah - posted on 03/02/2015

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Many mother parent children born close together. You son will be 18 months when the next arrives. Living alone and being so early n your pregnancy is probably not helping your mood. Do you have any family or friends nearby for support? If you don't want to have an abortion, then don't.

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