Jessica - posted on 03/21/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
To moms who have been forced to go through this by the courts.... i'm okay with them meeting and him building a relationship with her but I want to make sure that it is done at her speed, he knows nothing about my child and before this time he has refused to make contact with me at all and that makes me very uneasy for the fact that he doesn't know enough about her to just start having time with her. He doesn't know her likes, dislikes, any of the people she talks about, her fears, her allergies etc. If he is not willing to talk what can I do? I do have a lawyer but I don't want to make the situation worse by just threatening the court situation.... I want us to control what happens to our daughter and when and how not a judge who knows even less about her. Please any insight is helpful.