Kelly - posted on 02/19/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
Ive been divorced from my daughters father since 2007, she is 11 now. We have had joint custody but I've always had full physical custody. Up until sept of this year she has always gone with him Mon and wed from 6pm and then he took her to school the next day and every other weekend. He has tried to take full custody twice and the last time in sep 2015 the judge proposed 50/50. To be civil I agreed. Then 3 months later he petitioned me to stop his support. He has stopped paying for a few weeks then makes a payment then stops etc. The child enforcement unit is involved too so now we have been going to court for that. This school year she is failing school. Her brother and her would do homework together, he is 14 so he was helping her learn. They were always close. Like I said now she's failing school. Her brother and her aren't close anymore it just seems like so much has changed in a negative way and not in her best interest. Our little family of 3 is torn apart. She says she wants it to go back to how it was but she's afraid of her dad, and I'm afraid that what she wants and how she feels won't be supported by the judge. Its not the money its his tactick that gets me. He told her when on the phone with me that I'm not getting anore money from him, we will get evicted from our home and she won't be living with me anymore. What can I do to reverse this??