Darcie - posted on 10/23/2013 ( 11 moms have responded )
My ex & I have a 50/50 shared custody plan...I did not want this, he had a lawyer, I did not... He won...This shared plan has been ordered now for almost 3 years...It's been horrible. I miss them greatly, and feel completely disconnected. The problem is he is extremely narcissistic and never communicates with me anything that has to do with the kids. They never call when they are with him & say he doesn't want them calling on his time. He has a total of 6 kids (3 w/ me, 3 with 2 other women) plus he has a grandchild too who is older than his youngest..He doesn't pay his court ordered 1/2 of his medical bills...the youngest doesn't & hasn't lived with him for a year...She has only visited a few times during the year...The older they get the harder it is becoming...Please help...I feel like I am crashing & burning...