Imani - posted on 10/18/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
I am currently 6 months pregnant and have a 4 year old. My boyfriend was taken into custody late last week, he is already a 2x felon. I am trying to stay strong, but it is hard. My 4 year old son adores him, although, he is not his biological father, he is his father.
We recently found out (2 days before he was arrested) that there maybe something wrong with the baby. I have had 3 ultrasounds in the past 2 weeks, and still have to go back for another this week! I am a wreck. I got to see and speak to my bf for the first time since he was taken last night. It was sweetest day (I live in the midwest) yesterday, and tomorrow is our first anniversary.
I have known this man for years, and am totally in love with him. I was living in another state and decided to move back home to be with him. His family is wonderful, they feel like my own. I really have no connection with my real family here, my mother is back on the west coast, where i was living. I have no intention of breaking up with him, he is an amazing man that has made some stupid mistakes. It seems that the police have been watching him for sometime, I have no clue if he will be released at the end of the month or by the time this baby inside me is in 1st grade. I am left clueless until the end of the month..
I guess i got on here to get some advice and words of encouragement. I feel like I'm going to have a mental breakdown. I have no appetite, can't really sleep, and have not been back to work since this happened (about 3 days). I am so thankful that my boss is 100% understanding. I will go back tomorrow, but i need to find some peace of mind today, to keep me going.
I know nobody is in my same exact situation, but, maybe some positive words can uplift me. Or you can tell me what helped you through the hardest time of your life...
Thank you all...