8 year old out of control and on the internet what do i do???

Andrea - posted on 11/23/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I really need help on this one her bio father never seen her since birth and her stepfather was there all her life but her bio father wont give up custody court and law on his side she met someone in person she met online



her friend had an iphone with internet access which the school lets them use it at lunch my daughter created a fb there and added my 19 y/o niece and my niece told me about it and my daughter told me how she created it using her friends iphone at school i told her shes logging on to her fb and were deleting it and she refused even i persisted for 6 hrs and i complained to the school they did nothing and said i am a terrible parent and it's not their problem my daughter wont tell me who it was so i cant speak to the parents of that child. i tried switching schools but her bio dad wont give permission. then i found sexually suggestive photos of her online with her name her friends did this and then i found that she's been chatting with men in their 30s and 40s+ and i told the police and even recorded her sexually graphic talk she tells me men say this and that i played it to the police and the school and they do nothing even for custody it does nothing the school asked me to stop harassing them over this. she already talksout how she and the men orgasm and how it feels good and about privates i cant speak to the parents of those kids i dont know how to get in contact with them her step dad is also angry over this she says if i stop sending her to school her friends will post our address online she already told them to if shes absent she says



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she wont go to the doctor unless i drag her. she doesnt fuss or throw a fit but wont listen to me shes like a shopping cart you cant tell a shopping cart to go you have to push it but a shopping cart doesnt fuss or meltdown she wont speak to the doctor and tell her how shes feeling and when we go to the eye doctor she closes her eyes and refuses an eye exam the eye doctor found another way to find out if she needs glasses get her glasses but she wouldnt wear them and broke them



one night at 3:00 AM, someone knocked on my door stating she spray painted a few neighbors' cars and i had to stay with her in her room all night to make sure she didnt sneak out she told me she met a guy she met online thank god she's safe

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Dove - posted on 11/23/2012

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What the hell has your child been exposed to at 8 years old that she knows about orgasms?



There is no way that a police officer would not do anything about an 8 year old having sexual conversations with adult men on the internet. I'm sorry.... that just isn't possible. I'm calling that either you live in a VERY screwed up place that no person should live in.... or at least part of your story is bogus.



Get her evaluated by a professional and/or get a lawyer and take this to court. Something is very, very wrong here and you owe it to your daughter to get her the help she desperately needs.

Jodi - posted on 11/23/2012

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i also find it odd that the school refused to do anything about it. Once aware of it, they would have a legal obligation to follow up on these claims. They would absolutely know who your daughter hangs out with at lunchtime and be able to follow up with other parents. So I don't believe the school did nothing either.

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Zmate25 - posted on 07/27/2014

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no because the laws related to age of consent and such are contradictory to human rights and vary fomr one place to another. but normalyl people doesnt want to follow laws just their own laws.

Zmate25 - posted on 07/27/2014

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well. it seems alright as far as it gets. only make sure She doesnt get into situation where she would get kidnapped or so. therefore if there are some school employees and friens She should dod these private and so with them around.. so if there are many people it is not easy or impossible to kidnap anyone.

Also u have showed no proof She is having sexuality related chat with anyone. therefore also lacking detail..

on another hand, kidnapping children is very rare.. there are only those cases where police is cooperating with the kidnappers.. mostly pedophiles just want sexuality related contact.. some may have such ideas as taking them as wifes.

about school things... most people grow up to be dumb anyway.

EDIT: this is not to say, She is dumb, quite contrary She can be even much more smart.. then many others provided Her sexual and touch needs are met in a safe envrionment face to face, because She wouldnt think about boys or such while learning so She can pay attention this way. also it is possible for instance that someone is licking Her genitals to excite Her while She would be reading about something. and perhaps this done 4--6 hours a day during the period when bodily growth happens (because need some training each day and need to eat multiple times a day because of the need for food during growth period. the trainings can also be sexual because She is intersted about such.

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Having been in a mental institution for a month, that is a bit strong unless you have a psychiatrist recommending it. While she may not like going to the child psych but they're trained to look past that mask and find the problem.



I find it very odd that the police upon hearing that the men are over that age are talking to an 8 year old and had no reaction. What exactly did they say?

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