8 year old SD that lies for BM, running me out

DaNina - posted on 03/18/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have a 8 year old step-daughter that lies for her bio-mom, I have a 9 month old baby boy and I am currently 14 weeks pregnant. I am fed up with her lieing, her dad works all day and goes to bed early since he has to get up at 1 am so I am the primary caregiver. I don't know how to get her to stop lieing and not listening to me. Please I am begging for advice before I feel the need to leave my home because of her!

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Jodi - posted on 03/19/2013

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Sorry, I am having difficulty understanding your post. Are you saying your SD is being molested and she told you that? Have you notified the authorities that she told you she has been molested?

DaNina - posted on 03/19/2013

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Look she is scares to tell us anything because her mom threatens her that if she does she will take food away from her. fondling my son she is being molested, she has told me there are you happy! and ok i know that she is EIGHT i was there for her birthday!

Jodi - posted on 03/19/2013

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How is saying nothing lying to you. At 8 years old, she is possibly feeling pressures and torn between the two households. She isn't lying FOR her mother, she is keeping silent to protect herself. SHE IS EIGHT!!!

Fondled her little brother? Could you please explain this a little more? Are you saying her mother has instructed her to do this?

Sorry, there are things you are saying here that are simply not adding up.

DaNina - posted on 03/19/2013

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My Step daughter will lie about anything and everything....If we ask her what they did that weekend she will say nothing. By then someone has called my husband or myself and has told us they saw her and her mom out past midnight at a party or she had a bunch of people at her apartment when my SD was there. My SD does not listen to me which is expected but it has gotten worse since her BM found out that she has no chance of breaking my husband and I up. My SD I know is not this little girl that she is acting to be but she starts being disrespectful and lieing about everything the week prior to and days following her visitation. Why I want to run is because her BM has taught her to do inappropriate things and she has fondled her 9 month old brother and was told that was not right by her father and I, but I caught her trying to do it again not long after we had our talk with her.

Jodi - posted on 03/19/2013

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What do you mean by lying? It would help if we understood what lies she is telling for her mother.

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