Narisha Sarah - posted on 11/22/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
Nothing will prepare you for the moment your child asks you "What is sex mummy?" My little Angel, oh lord. I told her that there are two definitions of sex. One is an action and went on to explain that the other is to about gender, Male or Female I told her i will explain more about the action when the time is right. Which is.. NEVER!! but i need to do it. HOW?!!! Dodged that bullet but cant for long. She understands biological father to a 'certain 'extent, I explained to her and have spoken to her about her dad. That's the man who is your dad, his name, why i left him, explained that its not that he didn't love her, but he was selfish n loved himself more. I didn't know how else to explain it and it was time to. I left her dad when she was 1year 2months and well after fighting with him for 5 months to come and see her, even just spend some time with her. I lost it and told him to take a hike, don't ever come near us again. He always had a choice, from the beginning, never forced him. all i said was, "I'm having my child, either your with me now, or you leave. No problem but please done come back in 9 months and say heey!! my baby". I was straight up and very easy about it. Didn't even ask for money if he walked. but noooooo.. he loved me and said he would change. well.. you can guess the rest. any ways.. going off topic, sorry.. She knows that to have a child, you need a man and a women. She just never knew how because i am an expert at dodging that. lol.. While growing up i showed her that families come in all different forms, some have a mummy and daddy, some just the daddy, some just the mummy and some have grandparents who take the responsibility as parents, some aunts. You get the picture. so she was ok. but she is 9 now and i cant shelter her from this any more. lost.. i am lost.. actually freaking out..