User - posted on 05/11/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have one son he is 9 years old, in beginning of July of 2010 my father passed away. I was home for 7 days and my mother passed away. then in Feb 2012 my step father passed away. My son has been talking lately about how he does not want for anyone to get older he wants everything to stay the same. He was been having a difficult time at night, ther have been night where he ends up sleeping with me because he was gotten himself so upset that he ends up crying himself to sleep. I have told him that even though they are not here in body they are still in our hearts and we can talk with them anytime we want. Mother's day is this Sunday and he has expressed that he want to go to where they lived. I have told him that we can go there this summer (since it is a drive). He also wants to write her letters which I think is a good idea. I just am not sure it this would help him or hurt him. Can I get some thoughts?