9 yr old licks and takes his poop to school ...

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013 ( 18 moms have responded )

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he has some issues that are really serious ...he lies ,steals peas on his bed and out his window...?????

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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All I can say is keep getting him mental and physical help from professionals. I seriously would consider homeschooling him until it is all figured out. I would not want my child exposed to this in school, nor should other children be expected to.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/06/2013

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That's why you need to start being aggressive. You keep saying that he's got serious issues, and you're concerned, so get aggressive!

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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ya i'm worried about that to and what the other parents are feeling and how the other children are being affected ..=(

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/06/2013

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The harsh reality is that if another parent chooses to have an investigation started, you and your husband will be considered at fault for allowing the behaviour to continue, because it is a biological hazard.

Step up the "help". If the current physicians and therapists are not making progress, get referrals to others.

I agree with Little Miss. Homeschool the kid until this is cleared up. He's got problems, most likely stemming from his young age and his mother's behaviour when the split happened.

Good luck with all!

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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Well, keep doing what you are doing...but more of it. Clearly whatever it is you are doing, is not enough. That is not a criticism, just reality. It is clear you all need professional help with this situation. Also, perhaps look for special needs schools in your area. Discuss the issue at hand. They may be able to get him into their program and help.

Look in his room constantly. Discuss bathroom habits. Don't let him close his door. Check him fully before leaving the house. Have him tell you each time he poops in the toilet and make sure you see it before flushing. You have to intervene hardcore and continue the search for a doctor. In fact, get him in anywhere, and maybe they can refer him to someone with his specific issue.

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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I do deal with him ,i'm with him the most we are close but this is something that was a part of him before he ever came in my life,I have been fighting for him and I will not stop ,,I just need someone to talk to about all this...the school does nothing it's up to us to do this...!!

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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I talk to my son everyday ,all the time day and nite ...he has no answer for me...it's always I don't kno !!!

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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we talk to him all the time about his body and having respect for himself but he really does not listen to us..we tell him how sick he can get from doing that and so can other ppl.nothing has happend to him , his mom and dad broke up when he was two....she was a mess ... but he would not remember that ...

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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Your husband NEEDS to deal with it. So do you. I am not sure I would let him back in school until this was dealt with. In the mean time, talk with his teachers. They may be able to give some insight as to what is happening at school.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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Then check him up and down, his pants whatever you need to do. I would be flipping out if this happened with another kid in my sons class.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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Then start checking his room a couple of times per day. This is not only disgusting, it is a health hazard to himself and others. I would also sit him down with the father and mother and discuss hygiene, and why we have it. There is more to the story with your step son i am sure of it. Talk to as many doctors as you can to find out what the hell is going on.

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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we check his bags every day inside out , he has been hiding it in his pants .. he does this in front of other children ,plays with the poop and thinks its funny ...I'm so scared for him ,i'm only his step-mom so I only have so much say on what happends and his dad can;t deal with it ,he does not want to really admit there is something wrong and I can understand ...but I need to kno if we are the only ppl who are going thru things like this..??

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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no nothing has happened ,,he is very spoiled we do all kinds of things ...he poops in his room and hides it and takes it to school..we are seeing doctors ,he is talking to sum one but he keeps telling us all the same thing he don't kno ?

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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His behavior is also going to cause social out cast, and I am sure he is being bullied for his behavior.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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Seriously you need a professional therapist or counselor to speak with him. Something is not right. And clearly you need to check him and his bags before he goes to school.

Leona - posted on 03/06/2013

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I am his step mom ,I have been raising him for the last 5 and a half yrs...from the day I met him I knew there was something up with this little boy..but I let it be ,they ended up moving in with me and things were always happening and I would tell his dad..but he would not listen ... and now he just got kicked out of school for three dayz after already getting kick out last week for the same reason ,he took his poop to school and was playing with it ,licking it off his hands and thinking it's funny ... my kids are grown up and i do not kno how to deal with this stuff ,it's really hard i'm at a loss ... his mom drank and smoked while she was pregnant ...we had him tested as well and they said he has ADHD and ODD .. wow I need to catch my breath ,I don't kno how much longer I can deal with this

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2013

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Has something major in his life happened? I really don't understand what you mean by "takes his poop to school" Is this for literal translation, like he poops in the morning at home and brings it in a bag to school? Or does he poop AT school? Don't really get that one.

It sounds to me like you should be visiting a doctor about some of his behaviors.

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