Unknown - posted on 07/20/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )
It's crazy on how you deal with this problem and it was never easy to move on. I've been married now for 10 years with 3 girls. Our first year was everything until I found out he was cheating on me. It was crazy and I was hurt. I wanted to die when I found that he was having an affair not once but many times. I have 3 beautiful children I don't wanna leave them behind. It's true that ones a cheater will always be a cheater they would never change. I wanted to divorce him so bad because I don't wanna live my life like this with him miserable. But I want my kids to have a father figure even though I'm forever in pain. My husband is a good father and his a good provider. He his good looking man too. I know the more I stay with my marriage the more I get hurt. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm still dealing with this marriage and I don't know when it will last. I can never trust him ever again because he will never change . The ultimate revenge is taking the time to heal and forgive... Because God is my healer.
I'm so much in pain but I want the best for my kids.