A dad with custody of three, needs advise, to send or not to

Daniel - posted on 12/21/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My ex has not seen the children in over a yr had overnight visit (3days) thanksgiving, children came back a wreck, i moved back to mass with them in july shes in upstate ny,,There is an pending charge agaist her with family services.I am court ordered to send them xmas week which is ten days the longest she would have them in three years. I am at a lost to send them or not, i dont want to lose them but i dont want to hurt them.

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Ev - posted on 12/21/2013

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You are court ordered which means that they have to go with her for ten days. You can get a phone number from her so you can call them. Just because they go with her for ten days does not mean you do not get to call and talk to them on the phone for your peace of mind anyway. How come you have not gone to court to check into getting things arranged a different way? At this point its too late to take it to court to change things up. Also I would be checking with family services to see what she is charged with and why and if she should get them again after this Christmas holiday. Then work it out in court. If you do not abide the court order, she can have you taken to court for not abiding the orders. You do not want that either.

Autum - posted on 12/21/2013

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Looks like you may need to get a lawyer. Sounds like the mother has some issues.

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