A WEBSITE TO HELP THE GRIEVING HEARTS

Sangeeta - posted on 03/06/2010 ( 17 moms have responded )

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http://www.support4grief.in

This is to let you know that a website has been launched in february for the bereaved



There are simply no words to describe the Intense sorrow one goes though after the untimely death of a loved one.

Support4grief aims at providing solace and comfort to any family worldwide grieving the loss of a loved one.

True healing begins when we have the opportunity to write and share our thoughts and innermost feelings with those who have suffered a similar tragedy.

This website enables you to connect, anonymously if you so wish, with people who understand your pain.

Support4grief also offers a host of information by way of articles for the Bereaved and the Caregivers,Self Help Exercises, Links, Grief and Loss videos, Online advice by expert counsellors ,FAQ’s ,Discussion forums, Inspirational quotes,Recommended Reading for Grief Recovery,Coping mechanisms and Help lines that provide free,anonymous,unconditional,non judgemental and a confidential listening ear. Moreover,this Hot line facility gives you the freedom to avoid the uneasy feeling of running into a familiar face when meeting with your counselor.

Please forward the web address to your friends, family members or someone who has lost a loved one and help them heal.

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Veronique - posted on 04/25/2011

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Hi everybody! I lost my grandmother ( Mamai ) on November 23rd 2004. She was my rock,my second mommy, she was always there to listen to me and never judge. She was the only person in my life that never yelled at me and whenever i needed her she was there. She was 72 years old ans in perfect health. She was just tired. She told me a few days before her passing that she was tired and wanted to go home. I ask her what she meant since we were already at her house. She said that she wanted God to call her number, she wanted to go home to him that she did all she needed to here and that it was time, she was ready. I told her to stop talking nonsense like that. She said that she wasn't going to decorate for christmas because she would no longer be here. Well i 1 month 2 days before christmas and she left us, left this world,left a hole in my heart and left me aching to hear her voice, smell her scent,tasting her piesand cakes one more time. I couldn't take the pain but somehow i needed to keep living because your life goes on whether you want to or not. In my family i was the only one who had nobody, until one night on Oct 14th 2004 1 month 9 days before she passed away i met my now husband. when i told her all about him, she ask me are you happy, is he good to you and when i said yes she knew that i would have some one to help me in a hard situation, that in the long run i would be happy. I can't believe i've manage to write this whole thing without crying because there came a time where i couldn't even think of her it would hurt so much. My 1st daughter has my grandmother's name as a second name and my husband's grandmother as her first name Ella Shirley! Perfection :) Both remarquable women that live on in my child.

Tiffany - posted on 12/01/2010

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My son passed away of SIDS 25 days ago at the age of 19 days. He was my second child. His death was very unexpected, due to the fact he was healthy. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. or miss him. I miss him so much and I don't what to do sometimes. I know that he is my little angel up there watching over us in Heaven. I have a 5 year old son. He misses his little brother and his really confused why hes brother is gone. He just know that he isnt here. We tell him that his brother is in Heaven watching over us. We have pictures and stuff animals that we have to remember him by. My boyfriend also is taking it pretty hard in that we still can't believe our child isn't here. This is all so hard to take in. It really didn't hit us that it happened til my son funeral service. Right now we are trying to get into some counseling and groups and other resources that can better help us cope. I know that my boyfriend and my son and I can get thru this together as a family and we be stronger as a family.

Sada - posted on 11/23/2010

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My daughter passed away 25 days ago at the age of 20months.She had a genetic disorder. I don't know what to feel or what to do with myself. I have a 4 yr old boy god bless him, he is healthy and active but all my time was with her and now i feel as if i'm lost without her. I really love her and glad she's in a better place but i miss her dearly. Our memories should be treasured forever. My Angel is in heaven now, free as a bird.

Sharon - posted on 11/18/2010

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My only daughter passed away November 23, 2008, she would be 18 years of age. It is getting close to the anniversary and I am welling up in the feelings of when it happened. I have a very supportive family, and friends. I am attending school full time and about to graduate with my teaching degree. Not a day goes by I don't think of her. What keeps me going are the memories I forever cherish with her and the new memories I make with my other children. I have to keep going for their sake.

Jenny - posted on 08/28/2010

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I am 8 mths pregant and just lost my husband to a 4 wheeler accident on August 22nd. I am expecting our first baby which is a boy in October. I am taking this very hard and its nice to know that there is some help out there.

Terry - posted on 06/06/2010

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hi Evyln. I was in the same situation almost two yrs ago.My grandson was only 4 but so much wiser than his years.My partner of 15 years had a tumour on his heart and the blood was unable to pump to his heart properly. Well a blood vessell burst in his brain.It was so totaly unexpected.Don has been fighting addictions all his life, so his dr. assumed this was the case and didn't order any tests. I only found out from his autopsy. Anyways Matthew was very close to his Ampa. He had come from Van Isle to visit and all he could do was talk about death, which he never did before. I explained to Matthew that altho a person or a pet or things die they have an angel inside of them so even if someone dies that angel will always be there, to watch over you.Well Ampa deteriated during the night.Totally unexpected, I didn't know he was dying,I freaked out and tried to wake him up. A neighbour had come to take Matthew because everyone was freaking. The paremedics had Don laying at the front door and I just layed with him.We weren't sure what to tell Matthew so we just said he was sick.A couple days had passed and we knew we had to tell Matthew,when he asked for Ampa we said he wasn't coming back.I asked if he remembered what happens when someone dies. He had a big smile on his face and patted his heart and said Ampa is right here, then he says, but how do I talk to him. Then he says I know..And he bows his head and folds his hands. To this day he says Ampa still visits and he talks of the spirit world. I was blessed to have such a smart grandson.Death is such a delicate subject especially for kids because no one wants to see a child go thro such grief.

Teresa - posted on 05/28/2010

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i lost my baby boy a month ago he was still born ,i would like to try for another baby its it to soon and am i to old to try for another one

Shuquin - posted on 04/01/2010

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Evelyn hello this is Shuquin(pronounced Shaquan), well first of all I think that if your in a church then maybe speak to your Pastor and see if there is any kind of support groups within your church. Now if you don't want to go that route then again seek outside help after meaning support group's for children in that age range that way they'll feel more comfortable around there own age group cause you know children tend to open up about different things when they are around there own peers. And sometime when we don't know what to say or do a hug alway's work and let your son's know that whenever they are ready to talk that you are there for them and @ times we have to just let our love one's rather they are our children, another family member, or even a friend we have to allow people to have their space and go through their grieving process however they need to grieve as long as we don't see any danger signs then we have to let them have their space. And i know that being a mother we are nuturers so we want to make our children feel better because we don't want then to hurt so we try to do whatever we can to comfort them. But your son's are going to be alright Evelyn and if need be have them to sit down 1 day and write a letter to their grandpa and then let them read it out loud only in front of you and your husband aand after they are done with reading their letters they can rip them up sort of like a peaceful, letting go spiritual process. I hope I was able to help you and may God bless you and your family.

Evelyn - posted on 03/30/2010

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My father has terminal cancer. He will pass away soon and i am trying to figure out how this is going to affect my 2 boys. They are 9 and 6 and they are crazy for their grandpa. This is going to be very hard on us, but everytime I think about this i just wonder what am i suposed to do about my boys. Can anyone help me?

Shuquin - posted on 03/24/2010

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hello everyone my name is shuquin( pronounced shaquan) i just shared my testimony with another young women and now i am going to share it with you all before i go to class. in 2008 i lsot my baby girl Shekinah i was 7 going on 8 months pregnant and i could not understand why God had allowed this to happen to me. but for so long i was living in a world of craziness and i couldn't stop for my mother, kids, judge, and not even for God or His Son Jesus christ so when i became pregnant with Shekinah that's when i realized that i needed to live and not die so when she passed away i did not understand cause i was doing everything right going to the doctor for my pre-natal check=ups and any and everything that i was asked and told to do so when she died i was lost and her death didn't really hit me until the funeral and that's when i lost it.but i kept trying to understand why this happened then someone had said to me " shaquan the reason why God gave Shekinah to cause she came to save her mother's life she was given to me for a reason and a season" and again the reason why she was given to me was so i can get my life together and a few months after i grieved i found out i was pregnant with my little girl Trinity who's 18 months.so i hope my testimony can help someone who's reading this now i have to get to class. God Bless to you all and your families

JUNE - posted on 03/21/2010

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HELLO EVERY ON MY NAME IS JUNE AND IAM STILL A GRIEVEING GRANDMOTHER AFTER NEARLY THREE YEARS.I LOST A TEN YEAR OLD GRANDSON SECOND BORN GRANDSO,HIS NAME WAS JAMES (MAMMERS) WAS HIS NICK NAME.HE WAS PLAYING ONE DAY ON JUNE 14 2007 AND ON JUNE 18,2007 HE WAS GONE,IT WAS SO UNEXPECTED WE WERENT READY FOR THIS,AND HIS MOMMA HER FIRST BORN IS DAILY TRING TO COPE.I NOT ONLY LOST A GRANDSON I LOST MY DAUGHTER AS WELL,SHE ISNT THE SAME ANY MORE,I MADE THE MISTAKE OF SAYING I WANT MY DAUGHTER BACK,AND SHE YELLED YOU CANT HAVE HER SHE ISNT HERE ANY MORE.I TRY DAILY TO REMEMBER WHAT AN AWSOME CHILD JAMES WAS.WHEN HE WAS BORN HE WAS SUCH A HANDSOME LIL GUY,AND AS HE CONTINUED TO GROW HE WAS EVEN MORE HANDSOME.LIFE HAS BEEN HARD WITH OUT JAMES,A COUPLE OF WEEKS AFTER HIS PASSING I TOOK THE GRANDKIDS TO MACDONALDS AND AS SOON AS WE REACHED THE FRONT DOOR MEMORIES FLOWED AND TEARS FLOWED,HE LOVED MACDONALDS AND ALL THE COUSINS FELT SAD HE WASNT THERE TO HAVE HIS HAMBURGER AND FRIES AND TOY FROM THE HAPPY MEAL.I JUST DAILY LET OTHERS KNOW WHAT WONDERFUL SMILE HE HAD AND A GREAT SENCE OF HUMOR AND LET THEM KNOW HE IS OUR LIL ANGEL WATCHING OVER HIS FAMILY.BE BLESSED.JUNE

Kathy - posted on 03/20/2010

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I have been struggling with a loved one who committed suicide. The loss and grief are still with me...has anyone experienced this as well?

Carol - posted on 03/15/2010

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Hi
Recently I have lost my stepdaughter,who was murderd by her husband at the age of 30.She has left behind a 2yr old in a couple days.She was so beautiful,and the best Mother you could imagine.Everytime I see her son,it breaks my heart.She loved him so much!This should have never happend.There are 3 grandparents involved.At this time we rotate every 3 days.It is so crazy..

Carol - posted on 03/13/2010

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This is for those of you whom have lost a love one -I beleive when you loose a love oneyou really don't loose them because when i lost my loving mom a few years back i beleive she is still with me watching over me as my gaurdian angel. She is the love of my life,she is my angel.

Carol - posted on 03/13/2010

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This is for those of you whom have lost a love one -I beleive when you loose a love oneyou really don't loose them because when i lost my loving mom a few years back i beleive she is still with me watching over me as my gaurdian angel. She is the love of my life,she is my angel.

Carol - posted on 03/13/2010

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This is for those of you whom have lost a love one -I beleive when you loose a love oneyou really don't loose them because when i lost my loving mom a few years back i beleive she is still with me watching over me as my gaurdian angel. She is the love of my life,she is my angel.

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