Stacey - posted on 04/04/2012 ( 178 moms have responded )
My daughter is nearly 15 months old on 23.4.12 and her (father) has seen her 4 times in her life the last time he seen her was Jan 04 2012. He also refused to give her anything on her 1st birthday didnt even tx or call to say happy birthday to her. when he refused to give her something or come and see her for her bday i thought forget him. and we had no contact since apart from 2 phone calls 1 weeks ago and 1 today this is why im writin this.he says he whats to see her. i said u cant just come in and out of her life when is suits you. i told him if he can guarantee me a least once a month on that same date each month then he can. see her. he just went quite on the phone. So basically he cant with that silent answer.
He said he will see her when ever he can. what does that mean kmt. he has only seen her 4 times since she was born. i really dont no what i should do for the best. But him coming and going when he pleases is not on and not fare to my daughter.she deserve better than that. he gets me so mad. always chatting the same shit. i want her to know her dad but i dont think it would be good for her.For him to mess her about i know she only 1 but he aint be there and if he like this now what would he be like in the future as she grows up and he lets her down. i just cant see a future for her getting to no him. what do i do? any comments thanks