Absent mother, since day one. Two years later she wants in my daughters life..

Michael - posted on 04/10/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Since the first day home from the hospital I have been holding my own for my daughter, have gotten full custody etc.. I hear from friends when they run into lo's mom that she says I've kept her from seeing our daughter. To prove this wrong I found her myself, and reminded her my number hasn't changed. I wont make her come see her but I'd really like her to for my kids sake. Now today makes three times in a row that plans to come over and get to know our baby have fallen through. Should I even care if she wants to be in her life, we are so much happier without her...

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/10/2014

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That's why you offer visitation through the courts. If she chooses not to take advantage of that, you have proof of abandonment, and she won't have a legal leg to stand on when/if she decides in 3, or 5 years down the road that she all of a sudden wants to be 'mom', you can legally say no.

Michael - posted on 04/10/2014

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I could've had support when I took her for custody, don't really want it. Just want to know if she really wants to be a mom or no, and not at my kids expense. Thanks still

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/10/2014

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Take her to court for support. At that time, offer visitation, but request supervised.

If she doesn't commit to visits, don't stress. You're doing fine so far, Michael. Much less vindictive than some women I know...Good luck with your LO!

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