Liliana - posted on 08/18/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )
I am a stay at home mom of three...1, 3, & 5yr old. I feel very overwhelmed most of the time. My husband works long hours and has long commute. Some days he comes home till 9-10pm (goes to work at 5am). I have no family or friends to help me out, no one to talk to. I have expressed to him that I need his help but instead of helping me he makes me feel guilty by telling me, "other wives can do it... Why can't you?" While I sit at home with the kids he sometimes coaches an adult football team and goes to games. He also puts no effort into our marriage but sure has time for football. He is a senior enlisted military so he has a lot of control over his work hours. On that note I've put my education/ career on hold to support his. I feel like I have nothing... Can't stand on my own two feet if we separated. I'm sick of it and don't know what to do.