Jay - posted on 11/05/2015 ( 28 moms have responded )
My sons is 6 months old his father and I are not together. His father wanted me to have an abortion and did not want him. We were together on and off while I was pregnant. He would say things about wanting joint custody and paying child support. Saying he would take me to court if nessasary. I did not want him there for the birth as he was a huge stressor during my pregnancy. I called him after and he was coming to visit our son. Then he just didn't show up one day for his visit and now it's been over a month since he has seen my son.
He has not given any child support and has not even brought over a diaper for my son absolutely nothing. But I have never ever said anything about this. I told him anytime he wanted to visit it was great. I never fought or argued about anything. He has two other children from a previous relationship and takes care of them.
What am I supposed to do if he decides to show up one day?
I just need some advice