abusive ex-husband is coming to town

Patricia - posted on 03/03/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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On April 1, 2008, my now ex-husband beat me for four and half hour while our two and half year old watched. Now after 6 years he is using his parenal rights to see my son. Who is still terrified from him. The gardian thru the courts are over riding the fact I have full custody of my son. I am scared to death that he will take my son ane runn back to Florida , which is where he lives. The courts are so worried about him hurting me again that I am not even allowed near the visit. I just don't know what to do.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/04/2013

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Well, then if the person over seeing the supervised visits sees anything that could be alarming, trust me....they will no longer be any unsupervised visits.

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Jamie - posted on 03/04/2013

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Talk to your son. Do your best NOT to scare him, but he needs to know what is acceptable behavior and what isn't. And then he needs a plan about what to do IF his dad's actions are dangerous.

I'd get my son a disposable cell phone for him to call me in case of emergency.

Patricia - posted on 03/04/2013

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He is getting 3 supervised visits, but after that the supervisor will just be dropping my son off with him and picking him you later. Since it's unsafe for me to do it or be any where near him. My lawyer says my hands are tied at this point. I just have to let the attempted murderer have time with my beautiful son. Who already has spent more time in therapy then you can imagine.

Jamie - posted on 03/03/2013

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That was my thought, too....supervised visits. If you tell the right person that you're afraid that he's going to snatch your son, then somebody should understand the need to closely monitor the visit.

May you and your son be safe and protected.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/03/2013

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Can you at the very least request supervised visits?? Talk to your lawyer, they may be able to stop this whole thing from happening.

Melissa - posted on 03/03/2013

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Oh you poor woman, you are so strong! I'm so sorry that this happened to you and your son, I don't understand how he can even call himself worthy of seeing your son. He should go back to Florida and crawl into his hole where he belongs!

I can't believe he is allowed to visit! There should be something you can do!
Again, I'm so sorry you have to go through this after what happened to you. It's so unfair.

I'll be praying for you!

-Melissa Juliet
www.MePlusYouAndTWO.com

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