Fleur - posted on 03/21/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
Please be patient with me im in a right state..
I always wanted my ex husband to see his children as much as possible. However he texts unnecessarily when he had them spoiling my night off. He has a gf with two children who he lives with. He drew the divorce agreement up and I agreeed just to get out fast. He was controlling us terribly, I didn't smile for ages! I didn't go for part of his pension maintenance for me or the savings as they were on his and the children's names. It stated that he would use the money for school fees. Turns out he has spent all the money (even to it was in the. Kids names) now won't pay school fees do they have to leave and my daughter hasn't wanted to see him for ages. I forced her to go as she is 5. A solicitor and mediation yd md to listen to her which I did. She stopped going mediation won't help as too complex and I won't get legal aid and he had ALL the savings and is now taking me to court for access. I'm devastated and feel like a fly in a bottle. Can anyone give advicexxx