Adelaida - posted on 08/29/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )
At the time I got preggos with my now 9 year old daughter I was married. Husband and I spilt 2 years prior.(NOT DIVORCE) My daughters father and I were together for 6 years. After we spilt, for 4 years he took her on the weekends and I had her all week. No court order. He gave me $65 a week in child support. All was good till my daughter started to complain that she did not want to go with her father on the weekends. His girlfriend of 4 years started to change with my daughter. We spoke a few times, thinking we can resolve any issues we were having. Not the case. It got worst as time went by. He came to pick her up for his weeknd visit and never brought her back. The day she was to be returned home, I was served with court papers. I called to speak to her, no answer. Nothing for a month.Court was ugly!! Fast forward a year later (while in his care not mine) Judge ruled us joint custody. Him primary custody. 2 weeks ago he called to ask me why wasent he on the BC?.. Told him I was married at the time I had the baby...Don't you remember we never went to court to fix it. What happened was, While I was at the hospital a (AOP) was giving to me to fill out, BUT I wasent suppose to because I was married. So when DOH got the papers, also the letter from my husband stating he is not the father of this child, DOH sent it back to us for us to go to court and take care of it...WE NEVER DID!!! So he is not on file. But he is waving the AOP that was sent back from DOH like its vaild..and it's NOT! He's even register her in school with it. What I'm NOT understanding is how did he get to get primary custody if he has NO Parental rights?..They never checked into it. I've called everyone! My lawyer , her lawyer ,DOH , The Town , Hospital, Court..etc. I heard people say "Wow" ..That's not good'. A lot more details to this story. I'm hoping someone can help point me in the right direction. Again!!!...AOP IS INVALID! NEVER WAS FILED!