adhd getting someone to listen

Traci - posted on 03/08/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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i have been trying for along time now to to get doctors and pedatricens to listen to me but they are not my son is a very hyped up boy never sits down for two long loooses concentration and throws realy bad tantrums we are for ever fixing things around the house or he will swear at us hit at me the list gose on but after a while he calms down and gose about things as if nothing has happend the teachers have said that he has a moter in him he never sits still at school but has never hit another childe we took him to the pedatricen and explainded what he is like and she more ar less blaimed us and told us to just let him trash the house he will calm down my son has said that he dose not know why he dose these things and he dose knot mean to be like that and he loves us please how do i make them understand

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Traci - posted on 03/28/2014

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yes we know what he can and cannot eat thank you and the pediatrician did tell us to let him trash the house you was not in the room when it was said i am sorry but i have read some of the things that you have said to other mums that need help but you are not there to help any mums at all you do is put mums down that kneed help we have gotten help for our child and he is doing really well and he dose not have to go on any of this medication witch we didnot wont to put him on just some herble stuff it is wonderful

Jodi - posted on 03/08/2014

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Have you had a look at what he is eating? What children eat causes a large percentage of behavioural problems. I highly doubt that the pediatrician said to just let him trash the house. Firstly, he needs to learn strategies to manage his anger. Secondly, he needs consequences for "trashing" the house, such as cleaning it up or fixing it, or paying to have it fixed by doing additional chores around the house.

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