Adult 26 year old Narcissist Daughter

Sharon - posted on 01/29/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I've realized I'very been emotionally abused because of her SLOW verbal abuse she has inflicted on her father and I over the years. I've had to go No Contact with her. Are there any other moms out there, so we can support each other, that are dealing with the same problems with their adult kids? She also married a narcissist. I am missing out on knowing my beautiful little granddaughter, but I'm at peace with it as I've given the problem to God for his supernatural healing. I know I am not alone out there.

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Sharon - posted on 02/01/2016

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Thank you Connie and Raye. My daughter is textbook...and as I'm gaining more educated (there is so much out there on the subject) I see also how a psychopath title can also be added, or even malignant narcissism. This is the second time I've been given the silent treatment. The first time I almost had to admit myself into a hospital for the pain she put me through over NOTHING. She's nuts!. She's a liar, manipulator, and has no empathy. I can no longer trust her anymore, either. And this last time her verbal abuse and brutal thing she did to me left me with PTSD. I've been coping with help of family, friends and my church. Are there any other women out there who have a daughter like mine? I know she keep playing these emotional games with me,and even use my granddaughter as a tool against meach by not allowing me to see her, which she has already done.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/12/2017

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"my daughter is text book"

So you say, but is there an actual diagnosis?

Wcletta - posted on 01/12/2017

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I can truly relate to you my daughter is 36 and I can remember way back in her youth the lies she spread every incident I chalked up to her being different the police calls the mistreatment the hate for untrue events everyone said it was because I have too much not enough displine little did I know my husband is a covert narcisstis who for 35 years had from dating picked me to bash degrade to sex in front of our kids who belittle d and lied to any and all now he's just in face denying everything he's with her had me jailed put institution had me evicted when I left the stuff I had to hear for this last ten years all because I found out he cheated he literally tried to kill me them saying to me who's going believe me they were all I had on this earth I finally said enough I have had every type medical issue never been given a gift worked truly hard to hear her say I deserved it I'm not ever going to get a diagnosis. For them because they won't go I have listen to read everything there is about this word narcisstis text book my daughter's stayed by myside until I found out then every kind of filthy act he committed was my fault he has coached them from youth if you ever been through it you don't need a darn person to approve your empty soul no spirit barren stares hollow as if you never were human and for what my love my prayers my belief my need to see them just be human all met me with will find you you know you'll die well today I wish they would have killed me 55 and to know this

Raye - posted on 01/29/2016

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Coni is right. Just because someone is self-absorbed doesn't mean they have narcissistic disorder. It's very sad if your relationship with your daughter has gotten to the point of no contact. You should not allow abusive behavior. And sometimes you do need to get away from the negativity.

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There are people who are narcissistic and people who are full on narcissists. Make sure you aren't assuming she has a personality disorder because it's a very intense condition you are accusing her of having. If she is merely selfish and manipulative, this could be overcome if she is not a narcissist. If she is actually a narcissist, my condolences because there really is nothing to be done other than to cut her out of your life or spend the rest of your life sucking up to her and kissing her butt in order to keep her from being abusive towards you.

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