Cynthia - posted on 02/11/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am a 65 year old mother of an 34 yr old Aspie Daughter. THings are very bad. She blames her dad and I for every failure in her life. We feel abused. Cannot stand to be in the same house. Yes she's been living with us for over a year.THe guilt we feel and anger and despair is horrible. We have no life because we are to tired. Want her to succeed at something, anything. Day to Day life is horrible for her. No job (fired because of behavior, hygiene, Etc.) no car, totaled car twice been through 3 others. Our fault, or someone elses. SHe attacks us verbally routinely. We worry so much for her..SS denied her. no $$ coming in no financial help. Therapist $175.00 an hour. Many of her bills we are still paying off. No insurance coverage, employer cut her off. We're dying over here..No family member understands, even her brother who rarely comes home, I'm sure because of the tension here.