Adult son

Susan Ciriacks - posted on 12/31/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have only one son, who is married to a very controlling wife, his mother-in-law, and sisters-in-law run his live and are all very mean to me. I have tried to keep my distance just because their behavior is very evil. It has gotten worse since they have had my grandson and granddaughter. My son says nothing in my defense and says he will back his wife right or wrong. We used to be close, he said if I was still married to his dad they would spend more holidays with us, we have been divorced for 30 years, I think that is just an excuse.
All of their time is spent with her family and all the holidays also. I thought I raised him better but I guess I forgot something. Everything that happens is my fault. I use to be very proud of my son but today I don't even know him.

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Susan Ciriacks - posted on 12/31/2014

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I don't know if that is it. My d-i-l mother is very evil and jealous. Here is a example my grandson's birthday. I told my son I got him a tent. My son "oh mom he will like that" the day of the party. They open d-I-l mother 1st. Guess what a tent so there I sit cause if had known I would have gotten him something else. So, I ask my son how did that happen, he says I didn't say anything but I know he told his wife and she set that up with her mother.
My mom (great- grandma) was with me and my mom could not believe how bad it was and my son now even disrespects my mom. It is really sad. It just breaks my heart and my grandkids are being raise in that.
The last time my grandson came to visit with my son, they were leaving and my grandson said to me (who is 3) I don't want to go home grandma. It just breaks my heart.

Michelle - posted on 12/31/2014

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I would be changing the power of attorney from your son while he's treating you like this.
Could that be a reason why his wife's family is being the way they are?

Susan Ciriacks - posted on 12/31/2014

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Thanks, Michelle the only thing is I really want time with my grandkids. I love them so much as it is now I only see them once or twice a month. I have gotten professional help just to try and understand all of the abuse. I have been told it has nothing to do with me. I feel so alone but reading on here I see I am not.my concern with my son is he is in charge of my estate and my health care and I truly feel right now in his state of mind it is not in my best interest. I just don't trust him cause my d-i-l will tell him what to do and it won't be in my best.

Michelle - posted on 12/31/2014

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It's amazing how people can change when they fall in love. He obviously loves his wife and wants to keep her happy, even if that means being mean to you. They don't sound like very nice people at all. I would be keeping my distance from them all.

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